I have a small penis
I am 15 year-old boy and I am in form one. My friends have big penises but mine is very small. I am very worried and this affects me as I am always ridiculed by my friends.
Many times, I hear my friends discussing that girls like boys who have big penises. They also say that small condoms are hard to get than larger ones.
Is my small penis a problem in as far as having sex is concerned? Can I get a loved one and satisfy her sexually? I am worried.
Response
Although some men and adolescent boys are concerned with the small size of their penis, research has shown that most men have an average-sized penis. It is also important to remember that penises, just like vaginas, come in different shapes and sizes. There is no one perfect penis, and penis size or shape does not determine your sexual attractiveness or self-worth. Also be mindful that condoms come in many shapes and sizes so no need to worry.
For further information on your body changes you can consult a health expert at your nearest health facility which provides youth friendly health services, or calling Tithandizane National Helpline’s toll free number 116 or visiting YONECO’s youth drop-in centers.
ndili ndi nkhawa ndi chida changa
Ndine myamata wa zaka 15 ndipo ndili form 1. Anzanga omwe ndimacheza nawo ali ndi zida zazikulu pokwe changa mchaching’ono. Ndimada nkhawa ndipo ndimakanika kumasuka pakati paanzanga chifukwa chakuti amandiseka. Nthawi zambiri ndimamva anzangawa akukambirana momwe chida chamamuna chachikulu chimapangitsa kuti mkazi adzimva bwino panthawi yogonana komanso kuti ndikovuta kupeza kondomu ya chida chamamuna chaching’ono chifukwa chakuti makondomu amapangidwa aakuluakulu.
Kodi ndili ndi vuto kuti chida changa chikhale chaching’ono chonchi? Ndili ndi nkhawa kuti ndidzakwanitsa kupeza wachikondi ndikukhala naye bwinobwino?
Munthu aliyense amakula mosiyana ndi nzake. Ena amakula mwachangu kuposa anzawo koma palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa ngati thupi lako likuchedwa kusintha kuposa anzako. Kukula kwa chokodzera kumasiyana kutengera thupi lamunthu. Ena chida chawo chamamuna chimakulirapo mwachangu kuposa ena. Tizindikirenso kuti kusangalatsa mkazi panthawi yogonana sikutengera kukula kwachida cha mamuna. Kuonjezera apo, ma kondomu anapangidwa ma size osiyanasiyana.
